{"id":564,"date":"2025-05-04T14:44:07","date_gmt":"2025-05-04T14:44:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/remote-support.space\/wordpress\/?p=564"},"modified":"2025-05-09T14:57:17","modified_gmt":"2025-05-09T14:57:17","slug":"considering-different-points-of-views","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/remote-support.space\/wordpress\/2025\/05\/04\/considering-different-points-of-views\/","title":{"rendered":"Considering different points of views."},"content":{"rendered":"\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-video\"><video height=\"930\" style=\"aspect-ratio: 718 \/ 930;\" width=\"718\" controls src=\"https:\/\/remote-support.space\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/1745947947071.mp4\"><\/video><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Two people stood firm, certain the ball was black or white\u2014until movement revealed both were right. The lesson? <strong>Certainty often blinds us to the bigger picture.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Business as a Ball of Many Colors:<\/strong><br>In deals, conflicts, or team disputes, we anchor ourselves to &#8220;our side&#8221; (budgets, timelines, priorities) and dismiss opposing views as &#8220;wrong.&#8221; Consider:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>A founder insists on rapid scaling; their CFO advocates for caution. <em>Both want the company to thrive.<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A sales team pushes for discounts to close deals; finance resists to protect margins. <em>Both aim for growth.<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A negotiation stalls over terms: one side prioritizes flexibility, the other security. <em>Both seek a sustainable partnership.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Empathy as Strategy:<\/strong><br>The moment we step into another\u2019s vantage point, conflict transforms:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"1\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Ask, don\u2019t assume:<\/strong> <em>\u201cWhat pressures are they facing that I don\u2019t see?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Map their landscape:<\/strong> Their incentives, constraints, and unseen &#8220;black or white&#8221; truths.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Reframe the problem:<\/strong> Instead of \u201cWho\u2019s right?\u201d ask, <em>\u201cHow do our truths combine to create a better solution?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The Cost of Stubbornness:<\/strong><br>Deals collapse when egos &gt; curiosity. A startup once lost a key investor by dismissing concerns about unit economics as \u201cshort-sighted.\u201d Only later did they realize the investor had been burned by similar models\u2014knowledge that could have reshaped the pitch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Your Turn to Reflect:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Recall a failed deal or conflict:<\/strong> What did the other side see that you initially ignored? How might acknowledging it earlier have changed the outcome?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Next time tensions rise:<\/strong> Pause. Physically shift seats (or mentally shift roles). Ask: <em>\u201cIf I were them, what would I fear? Want? Need?\u201d<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Perspective isn\u2019t just a tool\u2014it\u2019s a competitive edge.<\/strong> The ball is never just black or white. 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